Get to Know–Meryl Ainsman
How do you define your leadership style?
I try hard to be inclusive, which requires being a good listener, and never dismissive of others or their points of view. I try to build consensus whenever possible.
Whose shoulders do you stand on?
My parents were wonderful role models in displaying leadership and professional attributes. My father was a practicing attorney until his death in 2010. As a past President of the JCC and an active solicitor for the Federation, one of his last actions was to “finish his cards” before it was too late. Additionally, I have gained much knowledge and strength from Jewish women in our community. They have shown me that “anything is possible” and that there is ample opportunity for Jewish women leaders – both locally as well as nationally.
What is the most significant risk you have taken and what was the outcome?
I think that most of my life I have been taking risks. I married when I was 21 years old, had 4 children in 7 1/2 years, helped my husband build and grow his law firm, held many volunteer leadership positions, and now run a private foundation. I did all of this by learning “on the job”. Sometimes it worked, and sometimes it didn’t.
What are you doing to ensure you continue to grow and develop as a leader?
It is in my DNA to immerse myself in the Jewish communal world and will continue to do so. There is always somewhere to get involved to try and make a difference.
What book are you currently reading?
The Women by Kristen Hanna, highly recommend it.
Get to Know–Ellen Gettinger
How do you define your leadership style?
Authenticity is incredibly important to me. I strive to ensure that I am authentic in every realm of my life. The Ellen you meet in a meeting is the same Ellen you will meet at the playground with my kid or while I’m hanging out with my friends.
Whose shoulders do you stand on?
My maternal grandparents, Doris and Elihu Grossmann. They were incredibly active Jews in their community in Philadelphia, PA. My grandfather was president of their synagogue and has a scholarship named for him at Gratz College. My grandmother was a chaplain at a Jewish nursing home and a Hebrew school teacher late into her life. Their roles within their community showed me what true authentic leadership can look like.
What is the most significant risk you have taken and what was the outcome?
Moving to NYC after college. I had two suitcases and had a handful of friends and couches to crash on. Eventually, I found my footing (and an apartment) and ended up staying for almost 15 years. I met my husband in NYC and eventually had my son, so I’d say the risk was worth it!
What are you doing to ensure you continue to grow and develop as a leader?
Meeting community leaders (like those of you reading this). I love hearing about others’ leadership journeys.
What book are you currently reading?
11/22/63 by Stephen King, highly recommend!